So a friend of mine told me I have a talent for enhancing her sex appeal. She is a gorgeous nerd who just isn’t good at flirting… or rather, wasn’t good at flirting. She have very open conversations about sex, love, dating, attraction, and appeal. I’m no expert but I like talking about it. Today’s topic, Enticing a Man.
Most women do this naturally. Some women are spectacular at it and others, well, let’s just say they are flirting impaired. I understand it can be hard to find the right balance of flirty, honestly, the key is just be yourself. If you have a romantic interest in him, then show it. If you don’t, then don’t (it’s a big no no to lead anyone on so if you don’t have an attraction to him be a big girl and let him pursue a girl that might dig him). Most women are naturally subtle and most guys need a big sign over your head that says, “I like you, big fella.” God is a Girl and she made guys simple like that so women could seduce us easily. Go figure.
If the guy isn’t picking up your cues then it’s likely you’re being too subtle for him. First make eye contact and smile. Sounds simple enough but you’d be surprised how many women walk around looking at everyone like they’ve never even heard of candy, sex, or happiness. Now there’s the chase. Look away and then look back, that’s the universal sign for come say hello. If he doesn’t come over, he may either be shy or stupid. The slickest lady friend I know likes to bump into a guy, hold his gaze, and then walk away with this really sexy walk. Try it and let me know how it goes. Also please feel free to sound off with your best tips!